Ok, I'm a women and I don't get how you can be a feminist and be submissive? That doesn't make sense, either you're dominant or you're not, you can't have it both ways!
BDSM isn’t about gender roles. Anyone can be Dominate or submissive, no matter the sex of the people participating. Plus, I don’t live the lifestyle, I just enjoy the fantasy of age and pet play.
Feminism is equal political, social, and economic equality rights for women, and the ability to be who you want to be. A house wife by choice is just as much feminist as a career women. As long as everything you do is a “want” and not a pressured expectation.